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FAQ's

Q: What are some of GnG's core values that are shared by friends & the community?

A: We value friendship interactions where sex positive people uplift each other. Respect, safety, and discretion are 3 of the key elements that empower these positive interactions. Our group strives to be open minded, supportive, and welcoming.

Q: Do you offer a variety of different activities at your event parties?

A: We love options to foster a diverse group with a wide range of interests. For example, event formats typically feature a wide range of activities. We do this to engage guests at every experience level, and every play preference level. Parties typically include meet & greets, venue tours, dancing, play spaces, and much more.There are usually areas for people to simply visit with their clothes on, as well as areas that are more sexually charged. Play spaces typically feature private and open options.

Q: What lifestyle sites do you support?

A: This site directly supports all the wonderful people who are engaged in the GnG community of sex positive lifestyle groups. The various groups include GenieWishes, Arizona Fantasy Club and Hotwife Palooza. We hope that the educational elements will also provide helpful insights for open minded people outside of the
GnG friends community.

Q: How important is safety and what do you do about insuring it?

A: We want everyone to feel safe as they engage with members of our community. There is a dynamic range of experiences within our group. Several fundamental safety elements are emphasized in support of this range:

- Safety requires CONSENT. We say "consent is sexy" because people can truly relax and get sexy when they know that touching requires positive consent.

- Safety requires BALANCE & moderation related to alcohol etc. People who require excessive drinking or drugs are not going to be aligned with our group culture.

- Safety is fostered by warmth and kindness. We feel constantly inspired by the friendly and welcoming mindset of our group members. We are definitely not fans of cliques. We realize that our group requires a time consuming entry process to maintain the highest safety and vetting standards possible. But once you are in the group, we want people to feel our long established culture of support and friendship. We are constantly evolving and growing due to the incredible contributions of experienced members and the constant flow of dynamic newcomers as well.

Q: Does GnG embrace diversity?

A: We strive to be a group that uplifts diversity in all its forms. Our vetting process is intended to promote inclusion for people who are beautiful on the inside. It’s our privilege to support people who have a nice range of individual preferences and backgrounds. We celebrate these differences and focus on the sex- positive common ground that brings us together.

Our GnG friends community includes a nice range of ages, with the majority of the group being between the age of 25 and 55. Currently, the largest numbers are people in their 30s and 40s.
We have some wonderful singles who thrive in our group, while the majority of our members engage as couples.

First time visitors comment frequently about the positive features they noticed in the people they meet: educated, respectful, friendly, fit, attractive, and open minded. We value this positive feedback. Nevertheless, inner beauty will always be our #1 vetting criteria.

Q: What types of Events and Parties does GnG produce?

A: We typically produce about 25 ticketed events each year, more than 300 since we began. Events include house parties, club takeovers, and hotel takeovers. We love partnering with other groups as well, so we use a “party within the party” format to support some of the shared events. There will be 25 to 30 ticketed
events for our members in 2023, mostly in Arizona and Southern California. The majority of these events will take place near Phoenix and Los Angeles but we intend to return to previous favorite locations such as San Diego and Vegas as time allows.

Q: What is meant by NRP or non-reciprocal play?

A: NON-RECIPROCAL PLAY (NRP) is an advanced level play strategy designed as a solution to the classic challenge of finding 4 way swap compatibility. We want to create scenarios that are enjoyable for all
participants and avoid swap dynamics that can leave someone feeling that they have just "taken one for the team.” So NON-RECIPROCITY asserts that each individual should play (or not play) at the individual level they please...The swap dynamics don't need to be equal for everyone involved to have a wonderful experience. For the full details about how this works, visit this article in our blog.

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